Showing posts with label Calgary wedding. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Calgary wedding. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

FRD - All that Sparkles - Lisa and Cam

Welcome to Urban Vows' very first "Friday Real Deal" post! I figured, since I only actually conduct under 10 weddings per year for now (you know, since I work full time in oil and gas, work part time doing events at an art gallery, I am trying to finish up my event management certificate, have a child, boyfriend, friends etc. to attend to) I wanted to cover other weddings that are going on in and around the Calgary area. This is a great way to see what other couples are doing, especially for venue and vendor choice.

When I first chatted with Lisa about featuring her and Cam's wedding she was so willing and excited, and I can see why! A beautiful ceremony at St. Mary's Cathedral and a stunning and glamorous wedding hosted at the Calgary Zoo and photographed by the ever so talented Edward Ross (edwardrossphotography.com), no wonder she was ready to share!

Lisa had a few testing moments prior to the wedding, including a horror story with her dress - trust me brides, you may take back anything you have stressed about thus far in your planning after reading this!

Congratulations Lisa and Cam, all the best to you in your new life together!


Lisa and Cam’s Wedding
August 21, 2010

The overall theme/colour/feel for the wedding:
The colours were ivory and black with some bright pink and deep greens. Silver was also incorporated into the colour scheme. I wanted simple and elegant with some sparkle.

My dress was relatively simple with a sparkly brooch on the hip and one on the small of my back. Lea, the florist, added big chunky crystals to my bouquet to match the crystals on my shoes and Stacey, the designer, added sparkle to my birdcage veil to match the dress brooches and crystals to my garter to match the shoes. The groom wore a black suit, with an ivory vest and an ivory tie. He had a single ivory rose pinned to his jacket.

The bridesmaids wore fushia coloured dresses with silver shoes and ivory bouquets. The groomsman wore black suits, black vests and silver ties. They had three ivory spray roses on their jackets.

The linens were ivory and the chair covers were black with ivory sashes. The centre pieces were high cylindrical vases with ivory and green hydrangeas, green leaves and fuchsia roses at the bases with fern-like leaves, ivory roses and fuchsia flowers on stems jutting out of the top.

How we met:
Lisa and Cam met at Queen’s University in their second year of Chemical Engineering. Cam first saw Lisa in a chemical engineering lecture when he sat behind Lisa and her friends. Cam was instantly attracted to Lisa and, with the help of a friend, they met...first through msn...and then in class...
Lisa and Cam have been inseparable from that point on.

Proposal:
From Cam’s POV – It was a Saturday night and Lisa was out running some errands when I decided that it was the right night to propose. I started setting up the house; first I made a trail of rose pedals and candles from the front door to the top of the stairs where I placed one rose with a card which read “Past.” The card described how we had first met while at Queen’s University and some of the incredible memories I had from those first few months.

I continued the trail of rose pedals and candles to another rose and card which read “Present.” This card described how we moved from University to ‘Grown up’ life and all the amazing experiences and memories we had including the addition of our dog Tucker.

The trail of rose pedals and candles continued to outside our bedroom door where I placed the last rose and card which read “Future.” The card read, “I have no idea what the future holds but all I know is that I want you in it with me!” Inside the bedroom I made a giant heart shape with the remaining rose pedals.

I put on a suit making sure I had the ring and tried to get the dog into the bedroom with me to wait for Lisa. Unfortunately, this was the time I discovered Tucker was scared of candles and so I had to coax him into the room with a handful of cookies. He was more nervous in the room with the candles lit and nowhere to escape so he did what he always does when he gets nervous – drops himself to the ground with his bum in the air and rolls around. I heard the garage door open and desperately tried to re-create the heart shape while keeping the dog calm and by my side. I could hear Lisa getting close and when she finally opened the door Tucker and I were looking at her with the ring box between his paws.

Wedding Drama:
Stacey Roberts, designer and owner of Rose's Custom Sewing and Alterations in Ontario had sewn my dress to perfection back in May. I was told to get the dress steamed once back in Calgary to remove any wrinkles from the train of the dress that may have formed on the plane ride to Calgary. I took the dress to the Bridal Centre in Calgary and when I went to pick it up on the Thursday night before my wedding it was ruined!

The delicate, rounded shaped rouching in the bodice had been flattened by ironing it on a board - creating knife pleats and lines where there should not be lines. The stitches under the pleats holding up the rouching were now in plain site because they had been flattened and pulled out of the way so it looked like I had a row of buttons down the front of my dress. The rouching on the back of my dress was also flattened to knife pleats and seams were showing and some were seams were even ripped out. The most frustrating part was that the train was more wrinkled then when I brought the dress in (and removing the wrinkles from the train was the reason I brought it in).

I cried all night long and told everyone to start cancelling the wedding because my dress was not wearable. At 6:00am Friday morning, I called Stacey, (the perfectionist designer/sewer) told her what happened and begged to fly her from Ottawa to Calgary. She agreed to come and try to salvage the dress. Of course all the early and direct flights were booked so she did not get here until 9:00pm Friday night before the wedding. She took the whole dress apart, wet it down to remove the knife pleats, re-shaped the rouching and sewed it back together. It was not ready until 8am the morning of my wedding…….and I had not slept since Wednesday night. At least I had a dress!

Stacey stayed with me the entire day to ensure my dress was perfect all day long. It was amazing to have my own stylist at the photo shoot!

Lisa’s favorite part:
Since the wedding almost did not happen due to my dress being ruined, every part of the day was my favourite and I cherished every minute. I had the perfect dress, shoes, veil, garter, designer, florist/decorator, photographer and even perfect weather! Most of all I had the perfect groom to share the day with.

Cam’s favorite part:
Seeing Lisa enter the Church looking so beautiful and happy; it brought tears to my eyes instantly.

Ceremony Location: St. Mary's Cathedral
Reception Location: Tent at the Calgary Zoo

Dress: Rose's Custom Sewing & Alterations
http://www.rosescustomsewing.ca/

Custom veil and garter: Stiltskin's Spindle - Dresses Outside the Book
www.stiltskins.ca/

Shoes: Stuart Weitzman (Diamond Collection)

Rings: Tacori

Flowers/Decorations: Designing on the Edge
www.designingontheedge.com/

Photography: Edward Ross Photography
edwardrossphotography.com

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Stationary Smarts

After deciding your guest list (one of the most tedious tasks in the wedding planning process!) invitations must be purchased. This is always a shock to the budget, as this minor detail often slips people's minds. Full wedding invitation suites - including a Save the Date, RSVP card, RSVP envelope with return postage, possible maps, gift registry inserts, and menu option cards can cost upwards of $10.00 a piece, this can work out to be an extraordinary cost to the couple, but there are a few loopholes in the invitation world.

Unless you have your heart on a lavish wedding invitation suite, look at all the other options. Not only are the full sets extremely costly, but they are not so earth friendly as well. Some people are setting up websites where all the wedding information as well as an RSVP section can be found. This website is sent out via email - completely eliminating the paper trail. Websites such as http://www.mywedding.com/ are popular, or, if you or your fiance are technically savvy, you can create your own personalized web page.


A spin off of this is ordering single-sided post card style invitations. The examples below are a few of my couples that have done this. Kelly and Brad used very minimal information in the text and chose to hold signs stating the date and location. For Deborah and Barrett's invitations, we went out to the venue, took some casual engagement shots and set them up in Wedding Paper Diva's and actually used a simple "Save the Date" template. With stamps and envelopes, these cost less that $2.00 a piece, save on a lot of paper and the website can be so much more informative. Items such as bridal party introductions, gift preference, and even the formal dress style for the wedding can be mentioned on the site. Saves money, phone calls and some trees!
Do remember, that the invitation is the first impression of your wedding. If you are having a major black-tie affair where tuxes and ball gowns are expected, then the casual invitation route may not be the way to go, but for many couples, as well as guests - this seems like a very smart and chic solution!

Thursday, May 28, 2009

Portfolio Schmolio


Since I was 4 years old, I wanted to get married.


Now that I have a 4 year old daughter, I know how weird this is. She wants to marry her friend Jacob, or so she says. He is the only boy for her, but I know this will change over time. She has already been a flower girl once, and is in training for her second rose petal tossing in a few months for one of my best friends. She has a mom who is slightly wedding obsessed and who is now taking courses to become what I think, will be Calgary's best wedding planner. She watches Rich Bride - Poor Bride and Hitched or Ditched with me. My daughter is doomed to be just like me.


I have bought wedding magazines, read blogs, gone to wedding fairs, and all with no ring on my finger. I just enjoy the entire process of weddings, from the engagement, the celebratory parties, the photos, the food, the excitement, the crafting of favors, brain-storming for ideas and the overall emotions and excitement that come with "the big day". Numerous friends of mine have gotten hitched in the past few years and I have heard more than once "Oh my gosh Brittany, I think you are more excited than me!" from the bride to be.


I started taking Event Management at Mount Royal College this year. I know that no one will trust someone who just gets really excited about weddings to be in charge of one of the most important days of their lives. I want to be able to prove that I am the best, I am capable of doing this and I am the one for them. This is the beginning of my Wedding Planner portfolio. When I get an idea, I want to be able to write it down somewhere, share pictures and ideas. One day I will be planning weddings for a living and my job will be helping two people plan to be together forever, but until then the wedding brainstorming factory is open for business.


So to start off, I will explain what my dream wedding is. Let's get this straight, I am not engaged, although my boyfriend Josh (he too, is doomed) have discussed our big day.
To get started, we will have our engagement photo's taken at the Calgary Stampede. Fun and whimsical, and we can both dress in our favorite Stampede threads. Anyone who knows me, knows how much I adore this time of year. The Stampede is my favorite event of every year. It is also where Josh and I had our first kiss.
We are both born and raised Calgarians, so it is important for both of us to integrate this background into our wedding. It will be in Calgary, at Hotel Arts, no other place will do. The ceremony and reception will most likely all be there, with a poolside reception in between. The colours will be reminiscent of our trip to Cabo, light sand, turquoise waters, and lush greens. I know my bridesmaids, as I am very lucky to have sisters and best friends whom I love with all my heart and my day would not be complete without them by my side. I want pictures on the railroad tracks, under the Calgary Tower and at the Saddledome. We will write our own vows and the wedding party as well as myself will walk into the ceremony to the Hawaiian version of Somewhere Over the Rainbow by Israel Kamakawiwo'ole, and I will cry my little eyes out, at least I think I will, I cry at everyone else's weddings. Brooklynn will also be involved in the ceremony and will receive a "family" ring.


The reception will be casual, fun, young and modern. I want a feel of a Miami club, warm and dimly lit. Think destination wedding, but at home with all those we love. Lots of candles, lots of food, drinking and dancing. I think both of us just want a great big party. Once the reception has started, I no longer want it to be all about us, but rather all about our families and friends having the time of their lives too.


See, told you Josh was doomed.